I can remember when my first child was born. I talked
about Junior with the gusto and enthusiasm only a new father can.
I talked about his birth, how amazing it was to see this
little human being come to this earth. I talked about how incredible he is and
the amazing things he did on a daily basis – like make spit bubbles, or the day
he discovered his hands. You know, the really important stuff a first born
does.
I talked about his first word: Grbbbbxxlavb – which I
believe is ancient Monrovian for ‘Hello, how are you?”
Not bad for a five week old.
I talked about his first attempt to crawl, his first
step, his first everything was topic of grand discussion, whether people wanted
to hear about it or not.
I know many of you are rolling their eyes and thinking,
‘So he’s the guy who told everyone about his kid, even if they did not care.
He’s the guy who forced words into my ear, polluting my brain with unwanted
information.’
That’s right, I was the guy and I am not ashamed to admit
it. I had two more children after K-1 and I bragged about them as well.
When the kids were little there were so many milestones
it was hard to keep up.
My wife would phone me at work with regular updates.
‘Junior just made his first stinky on the potty. Yay.’
I would then relay the incredible news to my coworkers,
who I am sure were all thrilled to learn that snippet of information. Although
some of them pretended to be disinterested, I could tell deep down, they really
cared that Scooter had developed the skill of not pooping in his pants.
The bragging continued as he grew and there were comments
about the first time he rode a bike, or climbed a tree, or burped his full
name. I was particularly proud of that one, but my wife was not so thrilled.
She obviously did not appreciate just how much time I spent teaching him how to
do that.
When the second one came around, I must admit I did not
brag about every little thing he did. Sure there were the milestone moments
that I let the world know about, but I was realizing just how unspectacular
many of his baby actions were. By time the third one arrived, bragging was
reserved for the really big events. After all, I had seen it before. It does
not mean I love my second or third children any less, I am just seeing things
differently than when the first one made the scene.
I began to think back on my coworkers who pretended to be
disinterested. Could it be they actually did not care that my new baby could
put his foot in his mouth? Could it have been they actually were not smitten
with the latest addition to the planet?
Naw, they loved hearing about Junior as much as I liked
talking about him.
Now my ‘little boy’ is a 19-year-old man and his ‘little
brother’ is almost 17. Little sister will soon be a teenager, but that does not
mean the bragging stops.
Now I just brag about other things.
“Yeah, so the missus and I went away for the weekend without
the kids and when we got home, the house was still standing. There was no
visible damage and, as far as I know, the police never attended even once.”
Other comments of a teenage parent include how well they
are doing in school, how well they are doing in sports, how well they are doing
in knowing everything there is worth knowing no matter what you tell them based
on your years of knowledge.
Yup, when it comes to kids there is no shortage of things
to talk about.
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